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berangere · 80-89, F
This is what happened when my narc and myself visited a marriage counsellor at his insistance,he had been trying to make me see a paychiatrist and I kept refusing,the reason he wanted me to see a psychiatrist was diabolical,if I had agree to see one in the 70's he would have made sure my employer knew about it and I would have lost my job,he used to say to me "I know you love your job and I am going t make you lose it" because he thought that being a registered nurse made me "better then him" "IF I LET YOU do your midwifery,you will think that you are better than me " was another one.we saw the marriage counsellor,she saw us individually as well as together,then he told me that she had said I should seee a psychiarist,that she was concerned with my state of mind,as she had not mentioned this to me I confronted her with it and she was taken aback,saying that she NEVER said such a thing and that it was my ex who kept suggesting it to her.Her attitude changed towards him even though he nearly convinced her the problem was mine.Soon after he stopped coming to the meetings,his ploy had failed.