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I Like to Be Sexually Submissive

unfortunately i am!but it drives me to let others do things that i dont like only to make them happy!!have anyone cope with that situation?can you help me?
candy001 · F
Being submissive doesn't mean that only he receives pleasure. It's got to be good for you, too and if he doesn't get that, he's not worth it. I like to be submissive, too but only for a man that is worthy.
Maggimay · 46-50, F
Thats not right. You have limits that should not be crossed if they make you unhappy. You should be respected. Your limits should be respected. If your partner does not respect that, you could land up in trouble.
jsecoy · 61-69, M
It all comes back to limits. You must have detailed discussion on limits before starting any play. If not you are just turning your body over to someone else to experiment on. Any good Dom is willing to take the time to learn your limits and is willing to honor your safewords.
HankStone · 61-69, M
Being submissive is just naturally who you are. It isn't something you can change or adapt to.

You're incredibly sexy and sometimes men are going to take advantage of you. You can prepare for situations in relationships and try to seek out dominant partners who you can trust to no do that to you, but even that is going to be tricky for you, and it isn't going to help you interact day to day in the world, and outside the relationship.

It's going to keep happening. I know that isn't the answer you want, but it's the honest one. You need to learn to accept it.
You need to set ground rules and set expectations in advance. When those expections are broken you need to know you have the right to point it out. The Dom/sub relationship is that a relationship and an agreement. Don't let anyone do something you don't like. Is there something you need help with that falls outside of what I just stated dear?
SW-User
Safe words!
SW-User
practice roleplay and explore and plus always be blunt about what you don't like...it's no fun if both doesn't enjoy it
guyhere4u · 46-50, M
you really need to trust the person before venturing too far into it.. a good Dom will not take advantage of you..
SW-User
If it doesn't make you happy, why do it? Your partner should understand.
Submissive is ok,but before playing maybe mutually
agree on boundaries,limits etc
kingofthenorth87 · 36-40, M
nothing is like the moment when a girl truly submits
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HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
You need to find the right guy.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M
love your pics victoria
Jason054 · 51-55, M
It's your body...thus it's your party. You should never let someone do something to you that you don't like and should not do something with someone that makes you feel uncomfortable.
GenesisWingman · 36-40, M
I don't was in such a situation but, you don't should let others do things to you that you don't like. Tell them your limits before you start.
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
I had a gf like that once. We got along great. It just takes the right touch.
Sounds like you need to find a Dom that fits you better.
Smikezz2 · 46-50, M
I like it when both can make each other happy
Polcatt77 · 51-55, M
Can we take a long bus ride !!!! 😈
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
Nope you cant be helped
HoraceGreenley · 56-60, M
I beg to differ. I had a gf like that once.
vetguy1991 · 51-55, M

 
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