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I Have Commitment Issues

I never thought I'd be saying this, but it's true.

I recently met someone who's as serious about wanting something real as I am. She's probably everything I've been looking for in a relationship. Both share the same beliefs on alot of things. But after a few weeks, I'm finding it harder than ever to stay committed. She's gone away for this outreach thing recently so I won't really have much time to be with her let alone talk with her at all except for maybe once a week. I wanted to believe that this was true love sooo bad but if I'm having issues staying committed to her, then it just can't be true love. She really does make me happy, alot more than most people, but now I'm just thinking about calling it off. Maybe it's the lack of time that she has for me anymore? Idk. But I just can't seem to stay committed to this. I have everything I could have ever asked for with this girl, and now I'm about to just call it off because of my need for time and attention. What's wrong with me? It feels like I'll never fully understand myself.

*Edit: I think I have committment issues because my Mom used to never stay committed to doing things with me as a child. More than half the time, she would always call it off at the last minute to do something she wanted to do with others. I feel like that has a huge role to play. Not to mention that she stopped being a big part of my life during my teenage years, so... that probably has something to do with it too. Life is confusing man
Fallflower · 46-50, F
maybe don’t try to psychoanalyze yourself so much. If you don’t want to be committed, you don’t have to be. It’s natural and normal. Enjoy your youth
LyricalOne · F
Dude, I’ve got socks older than you. Just relax and date around. Stop overthinking it. You’ve got plenty of time for commitment.

 
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