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I Admire My Mother

i will miss my mother. i knew this day was coming and now it is here staring me in the face. My mother is 85 years old and facing death from cancer. She was given 90 days to live about 30 days ago. As i sit here all the memories of her flood in upon me from the day i lost my first tooth to my first fight with the 2 boys around the corner. She was there for both of them. She clapped when i got my first 'A" in school and was there the day i pitched my no hit shut-out in the little league all star game. She pushed me in my music lessons to practice and practice until music became my love of my life. She was there for me when my first wife destroyed my first marriage with the 10 affairs she had. I moved back home with her blessings. She was sad when i moved out 3 weeks later when i remembered why i left to begin with - freedom- . She has backed me with everything i have ever done - no questions asked. She approved of my current wife of 23 years and always has been there for me and my brothers. She has set a wonderful example being married 68 years to my dad who is also faltering. i will miss her when the time comes but for the moment- i have 61 years of memories flooded in my brain to enjoy. i will miss you Mom and i love you very much!!!!![image deleted][image deleted]
1pebbles · 56-60, F
Blessed to have a mother that pushed you to fulfill all you were capable of. Having her unconditional love.... Now as a parent of adult children,myself, seeing how they've become the adults they are today. A job well done!
1pebbles · 56-60, F
You will always feel her loss, the empty space in your heart that only she could fill, you were blessed
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@1pebbles thanks gorgeous
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
My mother passed away at 5:20 am this morning, God rest her soul, no more suffering
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@ronisme1: Sorry for your loss. Hugs and prayers! <3
Sue8304 · 51-55, F
@ronisme1: My heart goes out to you hun x
@ronisme1: I am sorry for your loss. Perhaps she is now at peace.

Hopefully that you were able to spend time with her before the end is of some comfort foryou.
BellaLocura · 51-55, F
Thanks for sharing this. Glad to hear you have a lifetime of good memories. Life is always short, no matter how long it lasts. ❤
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Bella, you are correct, life is too short
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
I forgot to mention this photo of me and my mom was taken on my birthday last weekend
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Is she being made as comfortable as can be?
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
She is in hospice now, so yes
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@ronisme1: 🌷
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
They may have to operate one more time, to make her more comfortable, she is in a lot of pain, thanks for asking
Degbeme · 70-79, M
I sure hope all goes well for her. My thoughts go out to all.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
now is comatose- rapid heartbeat - non-responsive - and she is at least done vomiting blood. She has less than 48 hours left - when the phone was put to her ear - she flinched when i told her i loved her. i don't want her to suffer any more-
Suethenudist · 31-35, F
@ronisme1: im sorry to hear this.
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@ronisme1: Oh that is just so hard! :'( rg's thoughts and prayers are with you, your Mom, and your family.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
surgery was a failure- only left her in a lot more pain now - she woke up crying and wanted to die
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
deg - i'm sorry to hear that. nobody should have to go through this
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@ronisme1: You`re right no they shouldn`t. Thinking of everyone around you.
Sabrina01 · 36-40, F
So sorry
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
thank you deg and bella
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
update- she cannot walk - her legs are so swollen the fluids aren't being pumped out of her legs - her heart is going now - she has surgery on tuesday for the pain she is in - don't know how much more time i have with her.
Degbeme · 70-79, M
:( Sorry to hear this Ron. Our thoughts are with you.
Such wonderful memories. I am sure you are making extra effort to spend time with her. Think hard abut questions. Many people forget until they can no longer ask...
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
@VeronicaJane: thank you
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
the end is near - she is in extreme pain - she hasn't eaten for 4 days and can no longer get out of bed - thank you for all the best wishes
Degbeme · 70-79, M
@ronisme1: :(
Sue8304 · 51-55, F
@ronisme1: take care hun x
Suethenudist · 31-35, F
That's a great picture of your mom and you. You know how to message me if you need to talk.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Thank you sue
Suethenudist · 31-35, F
@ronisme1: your welcome.
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Just got back from southern calif where i have gone twice from Arizona in the last 3 weeks
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raregem's heart goes out to you! Hugs!!!! It is not easy losing your Mom. :'(
Citygirl · 46-50, F
My thoughts to your mom, dad and family
Degbeme · 70-79, M
😥 My thoughts go out to your mother you and the family.
SW-User
What a gorgeous tribute
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Thank you
Sabrina01 · 36-40, F
That's an Awesome Mom!
Degbeme · 70-79, M
How is she doing now Ron?
Sue8304 · 51-55, F
Soo sorry x
ronisme1 · 61-69, M
Sorry, somehow my reply ended up on top

 
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