That sounds like a healthy way to approach it ...One thing I noticed, I think sometimes we have a tendency to try to punish by using a similar tactic when someone hurts us. I think that creates this competitive pain thing where we try to show someone how we feel by using what they do to us back on them... But maybe the more helpful thing would be to just come clean and talk straight about how we're feeling--- Using I statements like ...When you do this... I feel like this ... etc... It is interesting how you set an intention in the meditation and instead you manifested an entirely different result than originally planned. Is there a way to just talk to her without any mask and say how you really feel?