I Love Getting Flowers

Thinking of my husband coming back in a few days, he always brings flowers, don't get me wrong I love flowers, he usually tries to bring a different kind, but i always know he will have some. I'm thinking he should mix it up sometimes to surprise me. If I tell him this its not really a surprise cause then I will know it was my idea not his. Maybe I should tell him anyway, cause I'm really getting tired of faking a smile at the flowers haha What do you guys think?

This page is a permanent link to the reply below and its nested replies. See all post replies »

WhatShallIcallyou · 51-55, M

It is his way of expressing love and appreciation. Your smile should be real that he still bothers.

unleashing · 51-55, F

I know 😥 i feel bad now, thank you

WhatShallIcallyou · 51-55, M

@unleashing: no need to feel bad. He is slightly missing the mark though as it isn't your way of feeling appreciated. I'd suggest you praise him for 'thinking about you' rather than for the flowers. There is a great book on the topic called the x love languages (I think it is 5 or 7).