I Would Rather Be Alone Than Be With the Wrong Person
Many would take the above title to mean strictly that involving a romantic type relationship, however, I think it could apply to any type of "ship." Life gets so weird sometimes. Always when you think it's going alright, there seems to be something that gives us something to think about...you know, one of those, "wow, didn't see that one coming," type scenario.
I believe we often don't communicate well with others, and as a result, things take a sour turn for whatever reason. People often are so tired that they don't take the time to understand, but jump to conclusions or just flat out do not care. It seems so many times too, we give endless chances with the hope of building a stronger bridge between ourselves and whomever, only to find that perhaps the boards to the bridge are weak and not able to be strengthened, or in more manageable/understandable terms, perhaps the other person has no interest in developing a stronger connection? Who knows?
Being alone isn't all bad...it gives one a chance to know oneself better, as well as think and regroup. It doesn't cause headaches although it does cause some heartache I do suppose. The problem though with thinking is often we think too much..we go back down memory lane and that often is not a good thing....it doesn't seem like life was meant to travel it alone, but if you travel it with the wrong person, then the journey is full of bumps, holes, rocks etc...so therein lies the conundrum...what to do, what to do. How much trust does one give the next one who wants to travel with you? It seems with the more miles that we've traveled, often the wearier we become...just plain tired of the bs, the siphoning of truth from lies, the trying to understand etc...
They say "life is just what you make it...life is what you want it to be." I think that's half of the equation..I think the other half is finding someone who 'gets you and whom you get." Such a tall order to fill...but for now, until that comes to fruition, being alone is not so bad for a while longer until the right ship comes in.
Perhaps it's more of a 'know it when your soul feels it' kind of situation that would occur if it is meant to occur....
I believe we often don't communicate well with others, and as a result, things take a sour turn for whatever reason. People often are so tired that they don't take the time to understand, but jump to conclusions or just flat out do not care. It seems so many times too, we give endless chances with the hope of building a stronger bridge between ourselves and whomever, only to find that perhaps the boards to the bridge are weak and not able to be strengthened, or in more manageable/understandable terms, perhaps the other person has no interest in developing a stronger connection? Who knows?
Being alone isn't all bad...it gives one a chance to know oneself better, as well as think and regroup. It doesn't cause headaches although it does cause some heartache I do suppose. The problem though with thinking is often we think too much..we go back down memory lane and that often is not a good thing....it doesn't seem like life was meant to travel it alone, but if you travel it with the wrong person, then the journey is full of bumps, holes, rocks etc...so therein lies the conundrum...what to do, what to do. How much trust does one give the next one who wants to travel with you? It seems with the more miles that we've traveled, often the wearier we become...just plain tired of the bs, the siphoning of truth from lies, the trying to understand etc...
They say "life is just what you make it...life is what you want it to be." I think that's half of the equation..I think the other half is finding someone who 'gets you and whom you get." Such a tall order to fill...but for now, until that comes to fruition, being alone is not so bad for a while longer until the right ship comes in.
Perhaps it's more of a 'know it when your soul feels it' kind of situation that would occur if it is meant to occur....
