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I Need Someone to Talk to

Help?... I've pretty much come to terms with the fact that I need help. I'm sick of people telling me I do. I know. I'm just scared. I can't tell my parents. I cannot bring myself to do it. Obviously it's a big deal to me if I'd rather live my life, hating myself and struggling to get through every day. Well, not everyday. Some days I'm ok. But most I'm not. I just can't tell anyone. And I don't even want a professional help. I think if someone is paid to listen to my problems, they obviously don't care. They're just doing their job. So I'm not gonna waste my time.
mybirch12
Just because someone is paid to listen to your issues doesn't mean that they don't want to help...they are paid because it's a profession! They are paid because THEY paid a lot to go to school because they had a passion for HELPING people and a want to do so! They wanted to learn the best ways to help others! You wouldn't say, "I'm not going to a Dr just because I'm sick and they only get paid to make me better!", that would be absurd, they help you get well and are paid for the training and schooling that they had to purchase! If you are depressed and nobody can help, then you take the best option there is for you where you can speak in private and know that nobody else will hear, you go to a therapist to have someone who is ON YOUR TEAM and SIDE and can help you strategize how to get happier and give you helpful suggestions as to how to cope with the things in your life that are hard to cope with.

If you're struggling every day, or nearly every day, then you without a doubt need to talk to someone, not everyone in here is going to know what to say or how to help you cope, that is simply factual. You need to actually WANT to get help instead of wallowing in sadness and self pity. We have all done it before, felt like we weren't worth it or didn't want to go to therapy because we are stubborn, but all that does is delay happiness and it basically means you aren't being KIND to yourself.
mybirch12
"I'm sorry", ??? Sorry for what? I'm trying to be helpful.
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
You sounded angry. I didn't mean to make anyone angry is all.
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Anyway, thank you for the help. I appreciate it.
hellhound5
Ya I don't mind talking to you and in truth I am a crazy person says my friends they don't see me as a person nor do I think that life is something that is great but I don't belong I should have never been born and never involved myself with others but I did and now all I want to do is help them no matter what I won't say no to someone who asks to talk I am just not like that I will be here forever and ever just to help whoever :)
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Well, thanks. Same to you. I'm always here if you need to talk.
FreePalestine
Each one of us has his/her own problems, and we can listen to each other in order to help them and to make their lives happier than anytime.

I like to listen to the others whatever they have to say because I like to help the others. In fact, I do it usually, and they get better. :)

I'm here if u want to talk ;)
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Thank you.
pathwaycee53
You have a voice. Sharing it in this way is exposure. Pinpoint why you are feeling this way. Read other stories of people that really have struggle and this will help you ease up on yourself. I got it tough to . This is helping me a lot!!!
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Whenever I read stories of other people's struggles, then I feel bad and then I get mad at myself for making a big deal of my problems when other people are going through far worse.
eeverom
Message me if you would like, I'll listen and won't judge. I've felt the same way as you before, and I can tell you that talking about your issues with complete strangers is actually really helpful!
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Thank you
BAPhoto
Here for you at anytime, with any struggle, with any problem and will be next to you on getting through anything cause your my friend
BAPhoto
you pm me a time and I will be here for you to talk with
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Thanks. You are so nice. You really cheer me up :)
Julietwhite
Hi. I've been thru that..and going thru it in a big way now. You said it well. You're not alone. Email me anytime.
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Thanks. I appreciate it.
hedgierox
You can always talk to me. Most days I feel the same way. But I feel that no one cares
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
I care. You can always talk to me as well.
Dahvid41
Message me if you ever feel the need to talk about anything at all
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Thanks.
fandev
Message me girl. I'd be happy to listen and help :)
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Thanks
SixthJ
I'm there for u if u need me
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Thank you.
maddogy
21cookielover21 · 26-30, F
Hi

 
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