I Am a Complicated Person

I have a boyfriend. He's thoughtful, witty, understanding, gentle, caring... He's everything I wished for a guy. Everything was going smoothly until this day. Before, I was always reminding him not to doubt me because I would never do things he wouldn't like. I keep on telling him that but he just won't stop. And it's getting tiresome. I'm getting exhausted with explaining myself. Or maybe I'm just complicated... I don't know. I'm perplexed. I don't know what to do.

ps. send help

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rckt148 · 61-69, M

Usually a scared person has a self fulfilling prophecy
The thing they fear the most
They cause
I have been guilty of it too
But when nothing good ever lasts ,,
Its justified I think to feel that way
You could always hang in there ,
prove to him this time it will be different

yourstrulytrish · F

@rckt148 Thank you so much for your help. But I don't know how or what to tell him. I'm scared of what might be his reaction.

rckt148 · 61-69, M

@yourstrulytrish my ex's were pretty clear ,
I ran them off .
maybe you could be kinder ,and at least attempt to make it clear ,
"look I care about you ,you have a lot of desirable qualities ,but if you don't let up your foretelling our future ,
I can't handle having to constantly justify myself "

Then if he doesn't get it at least you tried to be humane and give him a chance ,,I could have accepted that
and I did it to myself, my fear brought about my worst fears,
but mine just left me ,
It would have been kinder just to put a scared puppy out of its misery

yourstrulytrish · F

@rckt148 oh... I'm so sorry you have to go through that. But thank you for helping me. I've realized something I should do. God bless your heart💛

SW-User

You needed someone to express they understood you, loved you. Now when that is comfortable, you want something more exciting...

yourstrulytrish · F

@SW-User Oh... So, that means my situation right now makes me feel uncomfortable?😔

SW-User

@yourstrulytrish I can't know, only following something you expressed, are you?

yourstrulytrish · F

@SW-User Oh... Yes, you're right. Thank you💛

IllusoryKindness

Get over yourself. You’re not that interesting or complex.

rckt148 · 61-69, M

@IllusoryKindness for one so wise you would think kindness would come a little easier ,,
she is a kid ,,at 16 they are all complex

yourstrulytrish · F

@IllusoryKindness Why are you so mean? With all due respect, if you don't have something nice to say or something "decent", you could always keep your mouth shut. Thank you very much.

yourstrulytrish · F

@rckt148 Thank you for understanding us😌 A big heart for you💝🤗

RemovedUsername1041997 · M

Maybe this is a sign that you have gone as far as you can with this person and need to grow outward? Stay in touch.

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