Perfect !! Like I stated above it's just a word, nothing else...it's a pipe dream, or better yet nothing more than someones opinion of something. Attempting to change another to make them "perfect", (especially someone they care about) is selfish and heartless. It usually means that individual isn't happy within their own skin, and they believe by changing those around them, it will make them feel better about themselves, but then find it only makes them feel worse.
A lot of people, particularly woman and some guys, with a heart, as well see things as they want it to be and not what it is and to them it's perfect, Some try to change their partner to more perfect and defend and make excuses for the not perfect bits to anyone who can be bothered to listen Then wonder why they are hurt when reality hits them like a ton of bricks because it's not as perfect as they wanted life to be.
