Call me selfish if you want but I would find this very hard to deal with. As you know I'm not endowed with a great deal of patience.

I hope it works out all right though.

I would suggest getting a dog (you know you want one) but that might be cruel...to the dog.

I'm trying to read some amount of empathy within what you write, but I don't see it; in essence, I don't know if that is how you feel or how you intended to write what you did.

My thoughts are, that in life there are times when it's good to be on ones own and in ones own company. In silence we are not in a stagnant place because silence itself wraps around our inner, deeper thoughts. And yet life surely has to be a mixture of what we can control whilst walking alongside what we cannot control. It's a change ... something which most of us find ourselves having to face.

I sympathise in what you do say, whilst thinking that something has changed within your surrounds which must surely not mean that you are funnelled into a life of 'change'. It's a bit like saying that a loved one is outside your ideals which means there has to be changes, and yet within those changes there must surely be a way for you to adapt to those changes. Taking into consideration there are many people who's lives are changed by circumstances out of their control, then we each need to find ways to adapt and (just maybe) find another niche within such changes but either way, it comes down to considering that we all face changes and challenges in our lives which we have to address

Hey you!! 🤗

Your life has changed, but the whole world changed for your sis with that diagnosis.

I find it very difficult to deal with noise as well, but in this case her situation is very particular and delicate and probably and sadly, temporary, so try to see it from her point of view.

You are doing a good thing,