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what did you learn from your first heartbreak?

A lot... But especially that no one will change for you, even if they promise they will, even if they want to. You have to accept them for everything. And that's why I'm much more selective now, even though I'm desperate for affection at times. Also I've learned about my own tendency for unhealthy attachment, so I'm always watching and checking myself for that.
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@lovelywarpedlemon it's funny how you lose all your rights for wanting affection if you're picky in relationship. People love to taunt you over it as if you want to be alone!
SW-User
Nothing, apparently lol
coffeedimplez · 26-30, F
As powerful as the feeling of ecstasy that being with them is, that's how equally powerful the pain will be if it ends.
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@coffeedimplez Is it worth it then?
coffeedimplez · 26-30, F
@blasphemy666 Yeah its worth it to feel it at least once in your life at least. I would say someone should warn you, but who'd listen? If they did then it would ruin it.
KingofPizza2 · 36-40, M
Cardiologists get all snippy when you duct tape your ventricles together
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That I have to express my feelings when I’m bothered by something. I never got to tell him how I was hurt until recently and that’s a shame. Who knows, maybe if I was more open with my emotions then we would’ve stayed on good terms :)
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@SW-User ooh that's some wisdom you can only get through experience
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
Or maybe therapy you know
SW-User
@blasphemy666 That’s True. I’m very glad for the lesson.
SW-User
That I am smarter than I thought I was 👍
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@SW-User nice
Degbeme · 70-79, M
Sweet! Just saved myself some money!! 😬
takethecoastroadhome · 46-50, M
To take my time before giving my heart away again, and to waiting for someone who could see me, all of me for who I am.
Peaches · F
Don't expect someone to love you just because you love them,💕🖤because sometimes they don't.
When you stop loving someone, they can change dramatically
Fernie · F
That "forever" can be 4 years
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@Fernie did you enjoy those years though?
Carver · 31-35, F
That life ain't worth living.
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@Carver oh no.. That's not true
SW-User
I learned exactly what I don't want.
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@SW-User that's something
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@TryingtoLava but aren't you trying to lava? 😬
SW-User
That she was whoring around
Nanori · F
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@Nanori happens
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She’s a bitch? 🤔
Notanymore · 36-40, M
@TheOneyouwerewarnedabout I'll be upset, if you don't get the best answer
GardenSage · 36-40, M
When a girl says, “Just please don’t break my heart”

It doesn’t mean she won’t do it to you...
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@GardenSage i wouldn't even know how to respond to such statement... What exactly is being expected out of you? That you never break up?
GardenSage · 36-40, M
We were young. @blasphemy666
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
Obviously not enough to prevent me from the next heartbreaks.
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@CharlieZ eh.. That's a risk you have to take
CharlieZ · 70-79, M
@blasphemy666 And I did it, of course.
More than once.
And doing it right now.
But please take in account that it´s not true that we live to learn, but we learn to live (or not).
deadgerbil · 22-25, F
To stay away from toxic/crazy people
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
@deadgerbil it's wild how one keeps running into them
deadgerbil · 22-25, F
@blasphemy666 I hope it's my only time running into one
blasphemy666 · 26-30, F
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DDonde · 31-35, M
Not to be needy and that LDRs are no good for me.

 
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