I Have Never Had a One Night Stand

I don't get the whole point of having one. Of course yeah it involves less expectations and disappointments but don't you think everybody deserves a little more? To the others with this experience, I'm shooting you a question. Didn't you feel empty after things got done? Didn't you feel dirty? Didn't you feel numb or even better, didn't you think you deserved permanent? No offence, I was just wondering.

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Reject · 26-30, M

Some people are very good at just not caring. Simply going through their life having fun and not taking anything too seriously. This is almost ironic because this is what that One Direction song was talking about. Live in the moment and don't stress over the future or past! Make crazy decisions because we're living life and not letting things drag us down right now! That's risky though, and doesn't always work out. Personally I couldn't have a one night stand because sex is very special to me.

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johnsonjohnson3 · 41-45, M

It happens sometimes. Not often. Usually it's pretty fun and that's it. Of coarse these things happened when I was young. Your age. Usually fun, sometimes disappointing... and yeah... always a little gross feeling afterward.

Lolco · 36-40, M

Those are just assumptions you're making & easy to think when not having experienced certain situations ect

iFaye · 26-30, F

So I take it you've had one? Or maybe many?

Lolco · 36-40, M

@Fayee: just playing devils advocate... I realized is easy to assume something when not in a situation recently that's all... but like everything else it all depends on the situation / circumstances/ & experience

Challenger1 · M

I never have either, and I don't ever plan on having one. Like you I just don't see the point and see that it leaves a lot more pain than the temporary pleasure.

iFaye · 26-30, F

That's about right

iMystery · M

Never had one.

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