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MellyMel22 · F
@MellyMel22 sad
4meAndyou · F
I was good friends with my next door neighbor, once. She was a dragon of a lady, and began to complain as soon as we moved in, saying that trees on our property line were hers, abandoned paving stones on our property line were hers, and on and on.
I understand why this type of person behaves as they do, so I baked a cake, and brought it over to her and introduced myself. She was surprised and delighted. I knew she was just cranky and lonely.
We became good friends, and because she was about my mother's age, I helped her with her gardening, steam cleaned her rugs...did a lot of things for her. She did a lot for me, also. When I was going through my 2nd separation and divorce, she would call me at my mother's house, (an hour away), and let me know whenever the 2nd ex was breaking into the house.
Unfortunately, she had some very old fashioned ideas about marriage, and she told me that she thought I ought to get back together with the cheating 2nd ex, before the divorce had begun.
For me, that was like hitting a stone wall. I couldn't get over the fact that she said that, after she KNEW he had his soon to be second wife over to our house when he knew I was working. If I hadn't become ill at work, I never would have known.
I understand why this type of person behaves as they do, so I baked a cake, and brought it over to her and introduced myself. She was surprised and delighted. I knew she was just cranky and lonely.
We became good friends, and because she was about my mother's age, I helped her with her gardening, steam cleaned her rugs...did a lot of things for her. She did a lot for me, also. When I was going through my 2nd separation and divorce, she would call me at my mother's house, (an hour away), and let me know whenever the 2nd ex was breaking into the house.
Unfortunately, she had some very old fashioned ideas about marriage, and she told me that she thought I ought to get back together with the cheating 2nd ex, before the divorce had begun.
For me, that was like hitting a stone wall. I couldn't get over the fact that she said that, after she KNEW he had his soon to be second wife over to our house when he knew I was working. If I hadn't become ill at work, I never would have known.
DunningKruger · 61-69, M
I have ditched two friends, by coincidence with a few months of each other back in 2000.
The first one was a woman who had been the first girl I fell in love with, way back in junior high. She had gotten into a pattern of ghosting me, going off and getting married to some random guy and then running back to me when it inevitably collapsed on her head. I discovered she was doing it again, and told her straight up that when this one collapsed on her, she shouldn't bother coming back to me.
A while later, a friend of mine was giving me shit about something — I'm not sure I even remember what. I got tired of it and told him to get out of my house.
The first one was a woman who had been the first girl I fell in love with, way back in junior high. She had gotten into a pattern of ghosting me, going off and getting married to some random guy and then running back to me when it inevitably collapsed on her head. I discovered she was doing it again, and told her straight up that when this one collapsed on her, she shouldn't bother coming back to me.
A while later, a friend of mine was giving me shit about something — I'm not sure I even remember what. I got tired of it and told him to get out of my house.
@DunningKruger understandably so especially the woman using you ...
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MiserableAtBest · 18-21, F
@MiserableAtBest That’s really sad!
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
SW-User
@SwampFlower ^ This girl hates betrayal
curiosi · 61-69, F
She kept telling me that my husband was having an affair. That was impossible because he wouldn't have had the time. Later on I found out she was having an affair. Guess she didn't want me knowing so she deflected. I found it cruel as if I had believed her it would have caused great harm to my then husband and my relationship.
curiosi · 61-69, F
@Watching I knew he wasn't cheating but it was hard to hear and did make me think. Then later when we were going through the divorce I heard his lawyer ask "Are you sure the child is yours?" He responded she may be a "b" but she aint a cheater. If he was cheating he would have suspected me.
SledgeHammer · 46-50, M
This is a funny question... due to the fact that I have a hole dug in my back yard and we were walking back there one night to replace a sensor for the bucket light I've got back there that gave out... and,, yup! He fell in the ditch!
Lmao...
All I heard was an oomph!
😂
That was the only time I ditched a friend
Lmao...
All I heard was an oomph!
😂
That was the only time I ditched a friend
@SledgeHammer haha
PrivateHell · M
ExperienceDLT · M
@ExperienceDLT so betrayal?
PervertedPrincessOfDeath · 26-30, T
@SW-User hmm hard
jackjjackson · 61-69, M
@jackjjackson I have to love them with “safe distancing”.lol
bearinthehalfwayhouse · 26-30, M
Mohamed1Alsadek · 31-35, M
bijouxbroussard · F
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
SW-User
@Justenjoyit lol
TheLordOfHell · 41-45
SomeMichGuy · M
@TheLordOfHell ...like to the other Triumvirs?
SW-User
Can't think of anyone I've ditched. Not my style.
Iwillwait · M
Multiple thefts from me, already lies about me.
Justenjoyit · 56-60, M
travelguy01 · 41-45, M