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I Am Picky

Especially when it comes to dating, I realize my dating expectations are too high. I expect for a man to have a good job, a stable life, a nice body, tall, smart, is not crazy, funny, handsome and kind. When I get the opposite however, I tend to keep my distance or treat them more as an acquaintance/friend. I try to fix some of these expectations, but it's difficult to do so at a time like this.
greenmountaingal · 70-79, F
Maybe you should consider reading a book by Genie Sayles:
[i]How To Marry Rich[/i]

This is actually the most sensible book I've ever read on finding a mate (rich or otherwise).

Sayles says that there are only two factors that impact how happy you are likely to be in a marriage. If you think it over carefully, you will see she is right. What a man looks like, tall or short, fat or thin, what he wears, his profession, and many other things have very little to do with how happy a woman would be with a man in the long run in a marriage. Sayles says you should focus on just two things, in this order; a man with a [i]big, kind heart[/i] and [i]a big bank account.[/i]

This book shows you where and how you find such a man, how you conduct your side of the courtship, how to get him to fall in love with you and marry you. This would be a worthwhile approach to dating for many women.
SW-User
We'll never find a single person who can live up to ALL our expectations
MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M
lilchicknuggs do not date, they play with dolls 😣

 
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