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I Hate Valentines Day

I hate Valentine's Day! My mom used to get my candy and flowers on Valentine's Day. I think thats the last time I actually, really celebrated it.

But since 6th grade, I detest it. Its like a big "F" to me that romance just isn't for me. I was never the kind that got male attention. I was chubby with lots of dark hair. Etc.

My husband doesn't do Anniversaries or Valentine's Day. So now that I'm married, I see all of this stuff that people do for their spouses, and yeah, I kind of hate it.

So now its just about the kids for me. They don't have to hate it like I do. So I bought them cupcakes and for my daughter we'll watch a movie together. Mother and Daughter time.

Before, I was always lonely and every girl but me got something. And I'm a MARRIED woman, and yet, life is still the same.

So ..... I'm a bit of a Grinch on this day. I feel like this is "Let's all hate single people day" lol.

oh well.
Julienne · 51-55, F
Tell him to get you something even he don't like it himself. You deserves to be cherish as a mom and a wife.

As for u hating singles I didnt appreciate that. Ive been used and abused for years. Never got something for VD.

Actually I could say lets hate couples day right?
Julienne · 51-55, F
I see.

Well you and the kids are worthy of love and respects. Good that u do things together.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
@Julienne yes, everyone loves the sugar rush hehe
Julienne · 51-55, F
Yes indeed! Haha !
Im just gonna stay home and watch movies.
SW-User
Sorry you feel like that. I'm lucky my wife and I still mark it in some way, card, small gift and a meal together a date night in fact
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
he doesn't feel that way. Which is why I make everything about the kids.
SW-User
@darktippedrose: sigh. Good luck to you on your journey
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
@Nunos50: Thank you
SW-User
I loath it with a passion. All this Cupid and candy crap is too overrated. One of the reasons I dread February
SW-User
@darktippedrose: Anytime you need a warm embrace or a chat, feel free to pm me. My inbox is always open 😀
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
@mojorising: awww thank you
SW-User
@darktippedrose: Sure, just a thought 😀
Pfuzylogic · M
It is definitely a couples day.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
@Pfuzylogic: the same with me. 3 children, so I'm making it about them. But i still get a bit depressed. I gave my husband two Valentine's Cupcakes and all he could do is say something sarcastic, but he still accepted the cupcakes.

Grrrrr
Pfuzylogic · M
@darktippedrose: His loss, some do not know how to be grateful or loved.
darktippedrose · 36-40, F
@Pfuzylogic: so very true.

 
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