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What do you do to move forward when there is no closure? [I Dont Like Small Talk]

Oneofthestormboys · 100+, M
I’ve been in that situation and it’s horrible. Unfortunately you have to make your own closure. One technique is to think of a bonfire, and imagine that you’re throwing everything about that situation on it. Let it burn, warm your hands and walk away. It’s really hard and I feel for you.
SW-User
@Oneofthestormboys that's a good idea ,thanks
Nayla · 51-55, F
That's a tough one.
SW-User
@Nayla I understand I am going through that now ...
Nayla · 51-55, F
@SW-User I hope you get through it without too much pain.
SW-User
@Nayla I'm not ..but it's the consequences of my choice
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Take a box and put everything that reminds you of them in it.
Seal it then put it out of sight.

Grief - however it hits you, is a process in five stages.

Shock.
Denial.
Anger/Guilt.
Depression.
Acceptance.

You move on once each stage is done with you
SW-User
@Picklebobble2 good advice
SW-User
There is no guarantee that a closure will change how you feel.
So, I'd stop giving my power away to something I cannot change and I would look within me and see what I can help with there.
That's life ... I mean you just do. Maybe as a broken person or as one who learns the shedding of skin.
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Moving on isn’t as easy as it sounds. I’m probably ruined for anyone else until I can.
SW-User
@Ambroseguy80 yikes ...I am getting there..it's a slow progression .I try to maintain perspective...it's not easy but it is necessary for my sanity or what's left of it ..eventually I will get sick of myself for this and just be done indefinitely because life is too damn short for this
For me, just suck it up and move forward.
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SW-User
time to just get over it
SW-User
@SW-User indeed it is ...way past time
hunkalove · 61-69, M
SW-User
@hunkalove that solves nothing and it makes my face puffy 🙄
Elegy · 46-50
Move around it.
Driver2 · M
You just move , move or be trapped
SW-User
Try to stay busy.

 
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