sometimes NOT having children of our won can free us up to love on kids who dont have someone to love on them....or to bless kids who are dealing with difficult times. I cannot have kids of my own, but I was blessed to marry a woman who had 5 daughters......who i adopted and even though biologically, they arent mine....they ARE my kids...........be the Aunts and Uncles to kids near you or that are in your family...it IS a huge deal and is very important
@unleashing: That is one of the saddest things I have ever heard. But, it is honest and I commend you for that --and it is really a very common mode of thought in the dismal postmodern West. But what is the end goal of all this freedom -- how in the end is it going to enrich you? In the end what is it going to leave you?
@unleashing: I am sounding like a broken record: You know there are a lot of children out there looking for a "forever home" --consider adoption please!!!!