@SW-User She didn't she makes it sound like she did it for visa purposes I don't know how I feel about it. She says he was abusive and controlling and that she will do anything to make it up to me. She seems really sad and I do believe she will try to make it up to me but she needs to talk to me about this. What do you think?

@bushi2020 if some guy was abusive and/or controlling to me he would damn sure not get a visa

@SW-User She doesn't work so he had economic power over her as well. She was kind of in a situation where she had nowhere to run to or so she says. I really don't know what to believe anymore I want to believe but at the same time, I don't want to be foolish.

@BoobooSnafu Well the reason why we did break up was because of a friend getting in our relationship but their is one huge mega secret that I found out about and need some advice... That guy was her husband she was married to him but kept it secret from me. One day her phone was ringing not stop and she told whoever text her that the guy was her husband I confronted her on it and she lied and said he wasn't. After talking to her she made it sound like she married him for visa purposes so that he can stay in the country. I dont know man that just sounds off to me like why lie about it she should have told me then and we could have talked about that then.

@bushi2020 ah.
Well...i have a thing about liars: no way !

One lie destroys everything after it.

But that's only my opinion🤷‍♀️

@BoobooSnafu I can forgive a lie but its just she makes it seem like its no big deal and she doesnt see it as a mega lie which it is that bothers me.