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Do you know what your love language is?

Mine is words of affirmation. Which is I’m growing to understand is incompatible with my current relationship 🤷‍♀️
summersong · F
Acts of service
@summersong What kind of things?
summersong · F
@Notladylike just helping out instead of expecting me to do everything. Making meals when I am stuck working, doing laundry so I can rest. That sort of thing. It’s not something I have regularly gotten lol
@summersong Yeah doing things that are actually useful without being asked so the mental load can be switched off once and awhile
LadyJ · F
Knowing what the other is thinking without saying ❤
Deesa123 · F
@LadyJ i wish i had that.
LadyJ · F
@Deesa123 it happens
@LadyJ I wish I had someone that understood me that well
Farts and swearing
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@PervertedPrincessOfDeath Anything you desire you filthy whore 😘
@Notladylike Yaaay *sniffs at your butt like a poodle*
PhilDeep · 51-55, M
I think when there is an intention to remain committed in a relationship tools that promote deeper understanding and intimacy can always help, otherwise I just think they're manipulative. Online, for example, players will use them to feign greater interest than they really have. Just my thoughts.
@PhilDeep Yeah online relationships are typically just fantasy and they take more energy then they give back in return
Mine is Quality Time and Acts of Service
SW-User
combo of quality time and acts of service
Mine too! Words of Affirmation and Gifts are highest . My lowest score is Physical touch. ack

You can learn your partners love language. ...and your friends, parents. makes a huge difference in relationships
@thedarkshadow Yeah I agree. It can be so helpful.
Where did you do the quiz which scored you from lowest to highest?
@Notladylike I read the book 5 love languages gary chapman and it scores you there.
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
You’re doing great🤗
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@Notladylike 🥰🤗
@JRVanguard Such a sweetheart
JRVanguard · 26-30, M
@Notladylike Aww
Thank you sweetie😊🥰
Affirmation, predominantly.
Then Service, Time and Touch.
@SethGreene531 Do you get there in your relationship?
wackidywack · 22-25
isn't there like a test you have to take, though mine is probably acts of service
@wackidywack Yeah there is a book and all that. I think most people have the insight to know what they align most with, or maybe I’m wrong with that and should take the test 😂
SW-User
Mine is Quality Time with Physical Touch a close second.
@SW-User What sort of quality time?
SW-User
@Notladylike There's heaps of things but basically anything we like doing together where we come away feeling closer for it.
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
words ✅ and touch ❌
@ginnyfromtheblock We might be similar I need the mind turned on more then the physical stuff
ginnyfromtheblock · 26-30, F
@Notladylike oh i meant like i need both but i get one and not the other 😅 words is defff most important for me tho
@ginnyfromtheblock That’s shit that you can’t find both!! Hope you get the physical stuff soon 😉
Nobody00 · F
Hhhmmm. Example?
Nobody00 · F
@Notladylike no, I meant in your current relationship how is it incompatible
@Nobody00 Oh right. Just don’t get what I need despite conversations about it
Physical touch with quality time close behind.
Noble · 56-60, M
It's all spoken through the eyes, and action.
Cowboybob · M
Acts of kindness
@Cowboybob What kind of acts of kindness are important to you?
Cowboybob · M
@Notladylike making dinner, washing her car
SwampFlower · 31-35, F
Time followed closely by words.
SW-User
Physical touch
SW-User
physical touch
Acts of service
SW-User
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@Donotfolowme Physical touch is probably the most common one I’d say
Donotfolowme · 51-55, F
@Notladylike so I am right 😒
@Donotfolowme Gold star for you babe 😘🌟
DDonde · 31-35, M
empanadas · 31-35, M
Spanish and Portuguese
@empanadas Not pie?
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@SkeetSkeet Right? It’s not even hard just send a text or say a few words 🙄

 
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