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I Hate It When People Are So Argumentative

I have come to the realisation that my husband and youngest son just don’t gel and every time they speak they come to blows because my husband is so argumentative and has to have the last word!!

He thinks his always right and my son ends up ignoring him which he hates and then my husband goes in to a rage over the smallest things it’s such unwanted drama and it drains me.

Every time we go out in the car i am on edge because I know they will argue over something stupid and i end up being the one who gets shouted out for telling them to both shut up.

My husband is such an argumentative arsehole at times and I don’t want to be around someone like that and he wonders why I have become distant with him yet I tell him he needs to calm down but he doesn’t listen!

Ok rant over lol 😂
Picklebobble2 · 56-60, M
Dad needs to learn a little humility.
Not good having a 'big kid' you're married to.
No it’s not good! @Picklebobble2
Platinum · M
How old is your son...you need to sort it out for your own sanity...lots of dads and sons don't get on but he does seem to be OTT and it will get better as your son gets older......I was similar with my dad, not as bad, but it went on until I told him to punch me and it would be the last time.....it worked and he changed after that...
My sons 15 but I also have another son who’s 18 and he also argues with him too over stupid things.. the thing with my husband is he says his changed but when I look at him in these times I realise his not I’m the one who has and don’t want to put up with his aggressive behaviour anymore .. I want peace and harmony in my life he just causes unwanted drama “sigh” @Platinum
Platinum · M
@LittleTinks 15 is the normal age when they argue with dad, but it will get better between them...it's you that is not happy with him and being with someone who is aggressive is very dangerous because once the boys have moved on, he will take his agression out on you.....I would think you should think about the future as I can't say what's best as I don't know both of you....

 
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