I know that everyone faces challenges, put in place to see how they react or overcome obstacles. Some have compared their situations, then noticed, they're better off. Admittedly I have done this!, but I have never used it to my advantage. As sensitive as I am, I certainly never look down on these people, I can't carry their burden if I'm honest..but with such vivid imagination ..I get a glimpse of what they're going through.
It's like they wear a mask in public, you don't notice any weaknesses or pain, the complete opposite actually!..Then you both gain trust and talk it through,.. I understand, you stand up to whatever life throws at you, when it happens..but when I imagine what other people experience ..I try my best to stay together and support, but with most experiences, I place myself in it, and couldn't possibly imagine living it..I feel so cold and lonely!... But then I look at the person telling the story so confidently, like they've overcome something, and accepted it..
When you look deep inside, You notice the outside isn't always a perfect example of how they may feel, its an example of how they deal with it!.... I like this example.. and I suppose if you don't laugh..you cry xx
