I Am a Sensitive Person

My parents are pretty blunt and tell you straight up. My dad doesn't like that I'm too nice, soft and people running over me and acting weak and helpless. He would be on for not standing up for myself. He is very tough on me the most. Like when I want people to feel sorry for me, he ignores my meltdown and is embarrassed. I was crying over something that wasnt the end of the world and I wouldn't get over it. My dad was BLUNT when I got emotional over nothing he said, "Stop all that pathetic crying! You didn't get it the first time. So what? It isn't the end of the world. Not only you're embarrassing your mom and I, but you're embarrassing yourself! Buck up!" I would run to mom but she said dad is right anx she isn't putting up with my whining. I seem to resent people after they tell the hard truth. I told my aunt about an insistent about my friend got pissed because I didn't invite her to the concert and she got so angry and rude to me. I apologized but she said, "Whatever!" I told her my other friend and I told her way before and she said we didn't and I told her the last minute and it was rude to throw it at her face. My aunt said she had the right to be upset and it was my fault. That wasn't what I wanted to hear. I resented her after she told me the truth. I seem to talk over people when they tell me the blunt truth and tbey get annoyed with me bad had to shut me up and just listen to negative and learn how to did myself. My best friend even flat out said, "Don't be such a coward."
Sorry this is long but I need to let it out.