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I Like to Be Touched

Only sometimes, and depends on by who... I do have my own personal bubble. And if you need a hug you'll a quick 1 sec pat "there, there"... kind of a stranger danger alarm goes off if im not close with you[sep]
rckt148 · 61-69, M
I would never hug someone unless I asked ,or know them well enough to know they don't mind .
Its always a kind of sideways thing ,never a frontal smash like some people do .
But my family and I are huggers
we kind of start a trend where ever we go

Its always cool when people who said they don't like being hugged wind up lining up too ,,(Oh what the hell )LOL

My Daughter took in a young lady ,and her family rarely showed her any love ,one of the reasons she is at my Daughters .
So when she seen my family lining up to hug me goodbye
she is like "what the hell ,I am part of this crazy family now too "now she has her family hugging .

But we would never make anyone intentionally feel uncomfortable or forced to participate ,,
It began as a family thing ,and others just joined in
now its kind of a habit
SnarkiesWaffles · 46-50, F
@rckt148 no body parts smash someone can fit beteen us. My arms cant touch taps are on the shoulders... Even w family sometimes i just need space and i can only handle so much, they understand. Relationships are a lil different but like w kids there are times i still need space...
I'm the same way. If you want to hug me, fine. But don't pat me as though I were a puppy.
SnarkiesWaffles · 46-50, F
@PhoenixPhail right!
SnarkiesWaffles · 46-50, F
@PhoenixPhail when I was pregnant you should have seen me dodge hands. Ask someone, do you really want to unleash my monster early?!?!
@SnarkiesWaffles And you were in super, heavy-duty protect mode at the time. They're lucky all they got from you was dodging.
CarleighJ · 36-40, F
I don't like being touched or hugged at random. I'm semi okay if I inatiate it. But to be have space invaded, touched and or hugged I can't withstand being in close proximity or contact with others. It's physically and emotionally draining when I am.
SnarkiesWaffles · 46-50, F
@CarleighJ i completely get that. I feel that way w crowds also..
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SnarkiesWaffles · 46-50, F
@iamstillhandsome you would be infringing on my bubble sir!

 
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