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If someone can’t forgive you for your past actions, that is not your responsibility [I Am Adorable]

If there’s nothing you can do to fix it, it’s unhelpful for you to wallow in it. It’s their problem much more than yours in this moment
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
As long as you have offered a honest apology and made amends where you could....then I would say you are correct.
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
I agree and feel the same way. So glad you do as well. No hard feelings then about that missile zeroing in as we speak on the tracker hidden in my chocolate? Right? It's been nice knowing you adorbz. 🤷‍♀️
adorbz · 26-30, F
@sarabee1995 😱😱 luckily I have a plan 😌
sarabee1995 · 26-30, F
@adorbz Ahhh, the best laid plans...
TexChik · F
I suppose that depends on the severity indiscretion . The injured party’s rage is always justified and the earned consequence of the wrong doer .
KiwiBird · 36-40, F
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SW-User
Well put. Onwards and upwards :)
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adorbz · 26-30, F
@danser but if there is nothing that person can do to amend it, they need to move on anyway. Don’t let one mistake hold you back
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Reject · 26-30, M
There’s a lot of things in this world that you’ll never be able to do a damn thing about. So it’s surprising how many of those things still hurt anyways. I wish life were so simple as to only cry over things we can help.
AngelKrish · 26-30, M
Mistakes can me forgiven not ones but many times...but I don't forget them.
And there is no forgiveness for sin!😌
By the way, Happy International Yoga day.
SW-User
Easier to forgive than to forget.
That makes a lot of sense.
It's more their problem now in this moment, to deal with the effects of the things you did ?

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adorbz · 26-30, F
@OogieBoogie nooo that’s not what I meant. Nothing to do with what you actually did tbh. Whatever it is, if they can’t forgive you and there’s nothing you can do to make amends, you still need to keep moving on too. Don’t get trapped and wallow in guilt of things you can’t change. This is not a criticism of people not being able to forgive
@adorbz ok.

It's a simple theory made highly complex by so many variables.
I imagine the moral and practical solutions vary just as much .

 
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