I Think People Are Too Judgemental

This question is similar in nature to one you posted about old people last week. At least, I think the old people question was written by you...😉

As you've noticed, there are people in this world who try to make themselves feel better about themselves by trying to make you feel worse about YOURself.

For me, it was a long road arriving at that realization. Now that I know what these insecure people are actually doing, they look ridiculous to me. I watch them play out their little, "I'm better than you are," games and they look like clowns.

I let them be. People like that could only affect me if I let them affect me or if I am not contented with what I have. I am mostly contented with myself and my accomplishments so it doesnt really bother me.

I tend to wear blinkers with people like that, helps me focus.

I'm usually just like...

Usually just ignore them, so many other things to worry about, they just want attention and I wouldn't be interested in giving it to them.

Do you respect people who are sure to try to impress you with their fat salary?

Who would? I mean I don't know anyone who would.

I recognise it's someone who feels small inside and is trying to compensate. So... I don't need to react.

Fuck off a hole or just avoid them. Can’t stand boasting about themselves

Isn't you thinking people are too judgemental a case of you being too judgemental?

I smile and congratulate them. If their gloating persists indefinitely, avoid them.

Good for you. (be sure NOT to smile when you say this)

I avoid them.

🤷‍♀️

I do not respond. I know what they're doing, and I let them know that i know.