Somebody was on here this week saying huge US medical bills was a thing of fantasy, I wanted to cry 'bullshit' at the time but there was a round of flag waving going on so left it. Yes you will shit yourself, no don't give a fuck, there will not be 10 people in the room there will likely be 2 other than yourself. My wife was told by the midwife she hadn't when she had. My sister said she felt like she had but insisted she hadn't - yeah whatever you say. Let's face it nobody can push for 1-24 hours without having an accident, don't hold it in the sooner it's out the better.