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How do I ask a friend if she's happy with her boyfriend?

SW-User
The minute you ask her that she will think your real motivation is taking his place & it will ruin your friendship.
@CtrlAltDelicious: She disappears for days or weeks on end with zero explanation, and I can't tell if it's because she's avoiding him or not. It might not be him at all.
PreciselyUs · 46-50, C
@XamadtheFirst: Maybe it's you she's avoiding?
@PreciselyUs: Doubt it. Could be nothing at all.
Ouch! I wouldn't. I'd approach that in a different way. Maybe ask her if she and "so and so" are still dating. Just sounds better. lol You'll still get your answer, only not be so forward about it. "So....are you and ____ still going _________?" Or else just see if they're still dating.
I offered a way to handle that, as I felt you were adamant about doing it, but if not, I definitely wouldn't even go there.
I'd like to be adament, but I don't want to risk the friendship either.
@XamadtheFirst: Right, and I believe that would ruin it.
PreciselyUs · 46-50, C
You don't. That's really none of your business until she brings it up.
She would tell me, it's just a matter of her ego...
PreciselyUs · 46-50, C
Obviously, she hasn't.
Come straight out and ask her.
SW-User
Is everything ok with Bob?
Goralski · 51-55, M
None of yo business
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