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How to know yourself better!

I see myself as a good person and I help others.
But I don't have friends, or to be honest no one what's to be friends with me.
Mom told me that I am so damn honest that I sometimes tell things that I shouldn't tell to anyone, and without knowing I just hurt others feeling.
One more thing, is that either that I am paranoid or I am just so smart. I can feel what people are about and what they think about me. So I leave them before they leave me broken.
I am a highly sensetive person, I am just unable to deal with critics, I take things personally and I don't forgive you. My block list is so damn full.
At least you know you are Highly Sensitive. I didn't know I was that until I was in my mid 30's. A lot of research and joining a group of HSP on FB helped me. I mean, it's not something that will go away, but it can be managed. Things get better, just take your time finding the right friends, they are out there.
Wiseacre · F
I used to be like u when I was young, but along the way to old age I learned that caring too much what others think wore me down physically and emotionally...so stopped doing it.This may take yrs, but u can grow thicker skin...I done it. Good luck!
You’re a good person and help others. That’s a positive thing.

Being friendless is difficult and loneliness isn’t a good feeling. You’re very young so you will have lots of opportunities to make friends, but from time to time you will need to take some criticism if it is valid.

Although it’s good to filter people you shouldn’t reject everyone. Just concentrate on finding just one or two decent, reliable friends who accept you for you.
mellie · 26-30, F
@LukeTheDuke thank you ❤️
Whyme · 46-50, M
Ild love to be your friend but you will get tired of me constantly trying to sleep with ya abd staring at your butt and theres the age gap thing
mellie · 26-30, F
I wonder if U're friends with someone, does it give u the right to lick them 😂😂 it is weird
Whyme · 46-50, M
@mellie my senses are tellin me to just let it go i dont usually listen to them but it is friday the 13 so .....have a fabulous day
mellie · 26-30, F
@Whyme thank you.
You too.
Wiseacre · F
Perhaps the book Highly Sensitive People would help...Elaine Aron.
mellie · 26-30, F
@Wiseacre thank you
Wiseacre · F
u bet!@mellie
LUVELACE · T
there is nothing wrong with been brutally honest,call a spade a spade.I was raised to be that way all my life regardless of others im true to myself,others may find it harsh but hey they have opinions too,We are who we are in essence,our action don't define who we are,it a combination of things,so shake that way of thinking off your shoulders and live the life you want,people come n go
mellie · 26-30, F
@LUVELACE thank you ❤️
curiosi · 61-69, F
Meditation, there are lots of ways to meditate. Look them up on youtube and find the one that appeals to you. They all have the goal of stilling the mind.
mellie · 26-30, F
@curiosi thank you got your answer ❤️
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okaybut · 56-60, M
When you find your true self, you begin to attract and hold those who like you. Give it time. :)

 
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