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Why is "I'm not into you like that" so hard to say to a girl?

I tried everything from "I appreciate our friendship" to "I have a girlfriend" but none of it works. I admit, I'm not the greatest when it comes to honesty, but I figured it would be easier to lie a little. She actually took it better than I thought, but why can't this be easier?
Strawberry9999 · 31-35, F
I'm nervous saying it to a man, but it's better than leading them on
Give it straight to her
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@Dewms that's probably what she wants! 🤣🤣
Coz perhaps you still need to understand the distinction between Embarrassing & Funny And being serious, honest n direct.
I would have probably said "I don't think of you that way". Somehow it seems less abrasive but you did good.
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It's good it's not easier... Means sensitivity to another, not wanting to hurt and that can feel painful
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Fernie · F
what do you mean it doesn't work?
@Fernie she doesn't understand that I just want to be friends.
Say you're gay.

 
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