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What does a man want?

Picklebobble256-60, M
This is a really good question.

Well, speaking personally, i think men want different things throughout the course of their lives.
Probably the same with you girls !

In your teens and twenties much of the time it's about sex.
We all might like to pretend there's 'far more to it than that !'.
But it isn't !
Few young men want to settle down with the dull 9-5; the Mrs. at home with the 2.5 children; mortgage eating 3/4 of what he makes and the subsequent rows over....everything because of a) Constant lack of money. b) Mrs. fed up with nothing but the four walls and 2 kids under 5, and 'Barney the f*****g dinosaur to talk to all day ! and c) The idea that having got into that situation, there's little room for manoeuvre !

It's also a time for friends. Those you grew up with and have known through good times and bad. Those acquaintances you play footy/golf/in a band with/ etc.
(you can thank popular television for the 'Bro's before Hoe's' male mentality during this time !)

In your 20's and 30's it's probably more about 'looking for stability !'.
The job that might make a career; chance to improve the roof over your head; finding someone that hopefully has similar views and dreams to yours and (Note: This is one of the few times in life where men and women are almost on the same page at the same time !) is considering, seriously, having a family of their own !
After which. (assuming your search; choice and pursuit has been fruitful !) You move in together and try and get a life going. (your own. Not that of potential offspring !....although you'll enjoy the practice 馃槣)

30's and 40's ? Trying to make 'couple-dom' work; maybe even trying to make marriage work ! Bringing up children and all the hoops and assault course that brings with it !
Career tends to peak; so you feel un-appreciated/overlooked/walked-over/ignored. So you start getting itchy feet !

Itchy feet syndrome is very common around this time !
The job is unsatisfying; probably not bringing in as much as it should; bills never seem to lessen; the kids are growing up fast. Maybe too fast ! The Mrs. is wondering if she can remember any sort of independence. You know. Before the guy; the house; the kids; and everything SHE's had on HER plate since you got together that YOU never discuss because YOU'RE always far too busy with way too much on YOUR mind !
(Feel guilty boys ! Hang your head in shame. Cos we all do it !!)

Then you start having rows over everything you actually agree on. If only you'd actually LISTEN to each other !
This starts to upset the kids so, as a rule, the guy/hubby/dad ends up moving out !

So i guess what men want is money; great home; great partner; great sex; great kids; great career; etc etc etc.
And we dream and we dream and we dream !
SweetMae70-79, F
Good Food, Fun, Laughter and Great Sex
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AllAboutLaffs70-79, M
@SweetMae True answer !!! ... 馃槉
SweetMae70-79, F
馃槉
LadyWioness56-60, F
Probably a lot of the same things women want. Respect, acceptance, honesty, loyalty, and bacon. Definitely bacon lol.
FunGuy46-50, M
@LadyWioness ha..yes. bacon for sure
nedkelly61-69, M
Peace quiet - that is as rare as rocking horse shit
This man wants happiness
MarcelineF
naked food delivery
@Marceline haha you got a good business idea
UndeadPrivateer31-35, M
I suppose that depends on the man. Good sex and good food are probably both safe bets for most though.
WoodyAqM
We only ever have three things on our mind, and seldom are they there at the same time.
Sh8000036-40, M
A good woman
Smokey46-50, M
The last person I was with wanted control. So I'm glad I got out. I hate devious manipulative liars, sorry got carried away lol good wee chance to vent! thanks lol
SW-User
Sandwiches, Nice food, blow jobs, sex, love and attention and to be told how great that they are.
FunGuy46-50, M
This man wants some French Toast
sometimeslonelytoo51-55, M
Hmm, if you have a particular man in mind, ask him!
SW-User
Nothing.
SW-User
Oh yea right of course
GraciebabyF
6" heels
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FunGuy46-50, M
@Stereoguy That's what I'm going to have today
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FunGuy46-50, M
@Stereoguy Once again I'm a day late and a dollar short but I had French Toast

 
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