@Iwillwait Yeah, it seems like a lot of people put their mothers and fathers in homes and forget about them. I've seen it when I worked as a CNA. It's sad because these people always seem so sweet and caring themselves. I used to see God in their eyes and it was hard not to cry when I held their hands.

@Iwillwait In answer to your question, I would simply try to behave in a way that might show them the grace of God. People would much rather see a sermon than hear one. I am a wretched sinner by nature, and it's only by the grace of God that I can do anything right.

@puck61 Great advice. Thank you.

@puck61 it is.

@Iwillwait A tortured soul, but one of the greatest American poets of all time. I love some of his poetry and songs.

@puck61 I agree.

@Ingwe selfish altruism!