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Why do some people get married and have kids and some don't?

SW-User
I wonder why people insist on asking those without kids *why* they don't have them. It's an extremely personal issue, and it amazes me that anyone has the gall to stick their nose into what is essentially no one else's business. I don't remember ever hearing anyone asking childed people why they had so many... 😈
SW-User
@Snuffy1957 Ha! I wish... I may be maternal looking though.
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
@SW-User That look can be beautiful 😊
SW-User
@Snuffy1957 Except that if you believe what they say, they are happy with the children, which in some cases, was the only reason for the marriage to begin with.
SW-User
Everyone is different thank goodness, wouldn't it be boring if we all did the same things in life
butterfly1013 · 26-30, F
Not everyone is meant to, not everyone needs to, not everybody wants to and for some it's simply they haven't found the one to marry yet. Some people have medical issues or problems with fertility. For example, I'd at least have one kid by now, but my very first pregnancy ended in miscarriage which for me was something out of my control. It has been hard for me to get pregnant since then.
Snuffy1957 · 61-69, M
Some people SHOULDN'T have kids lol
Nayla · 51-55, F
Because to some it's important, and to others it's not. Some are pressured by family to have kids and some are not. Some are able to have kids and some are not. Some can afford to have kids and some cannot.
Beatbox34 · 31-35, M
Idk. I don't want kids. It's not fair for me to have kids.
iamnikki · 31-35, F
Personal life choices
Some people are poor so can't afford marriage or kids.
Some are ugly so die with loneliness.
Some are fools so they make kids and then have to get married.
Some are rich so they keep getting married and keep making babies.
SW-User
Some people don't want to, some people just don't meet the right person.
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@SW-User Oh. I also didn't notice the comma there first time. It must be the way the sun is shining in my eyes. Lol :)
SW-User
@Crazychick I added the comma, and corrected thd to the. It really was a mess 😆
Crazychick · 36-40, F
@SW-User I don't remember it saying "thd". I must have missed that because I was focusing on "dome". Lol :)
Wales · M
Some people don't know any better until it's too late. I have found people with multiple children to be the most self-centered and thoughtless and are only concerned about what they want.
Some want to and some don't
SW-User
Well, at the end of the day, it's about what people want out of life. Some want kids, some don't. That's it. Kids aren't compulsory.
Crazychick · 36-40, F
Different strokes for different folks.
DeluxedEdition · 26-30, F
the :"some don't" are the smart ones
SW-User
Well.. there a gazillion reasons... but they can be summarized around ... timing, finding the right person, what goals in life are, events and circumstances, and of course personal preferences. I think events are probably the biggest factor.
SW-User
Mr. Blue Sky may have a point as well... favorable genetics probably mean more opportunities to mate. Though that might not be hold true at every individual level, it's likely statistically true in large numbers. Lol.
TakenDown232 · 46-50, M
I think it has to do with how hard they fuck, they both should do a rough fuck, like if they both raping each other.

And also how thick and a lot the cum transferred.
wunderluv · 51-55, M
I ended up with a foot on both sides of this.. Sometimes it's as simple life circumstances and/or bad choices in partners
Ambroseguy80 · 51-55, M
Because some people can or care to and others cannot or don’t care to.
Because some people get married and have kids, and some don't.
Some of my friends always wanted children. Not me.
Pretzel · 61-69, M
opportunity
missed connections
lack of desire
mrh1972 · MVIP
For me its because no one will have me lol
Personal choice or just less favourable genetics.
AthrillatheHunt · 51-55, M
Low status men rarely marry and breed .
bluemachine · 26-30, M
Too much responsibility
SW-User
Finances could play a part.
CrazyMusicLover · 31-35
There are too many reasons to list.
Outsider98 · 36-40, M
For me it is ADHD and ASD.
ABCDEF7 · M
It's life..

 
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