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I Am So Confused

So perhaps I'm just naive because of cultural issues or something but is a woman that is friends with a man automatically sending a message to that guy that she's interested in him?

I mean, this is the 4th or 5th time I've had a guy tell me I friendzoned them.But I never hide the fact that I'm married and openly state it, I don't flirt knowingly and stop a convo if it starts,I say outright I'm just friends with my guy friends and I treat them like brothers just like my girlfriends I treat like sisters.....

What am I doing wrong? I'm just going to never be friends with a guy and just be civil instead. Much easier.
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SW-User
Men don't message with each other every day... so expecting a man to just hang around and chat isn't a normal friendship.
@SW-User And I don't do that myself so I don't get it. That's why I was confused. Constant chatter can look like more than regular interest. and I don't girl chatter with guys as is.
SW-User
I have no other suggestions. Good luck with your situation.