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I Am Easy to Get Along With

Just seen my husband's (for now)- new girlfriend. I was going to smile, nod - maybe not so much of a hello but hey, why not? There is no ill feeling towards her, she may in time be introduced to my children and as an amicable person I would like her to see this and that I don't have a problem with her being with my ex.
Unfortunately though she didn't look up from her phone. I am reasonable and easy to get along with despite circumstances. I hope she realises this and that I'm not going to be the ex from hell - though I could be :)
Lolco · 36-40, M
Lol I like how you add "though I could be" in the end :)
SugarRush · 31-35, F
@Lolco-: What's to fear? Your posts are random yet some are something worth knowing or what I had wished to have asked or thought of asking myself.
Lolco · 36-40, M
@Autumn-Rayne: as long as you can take something from them, or at least think "wow", get entertained, or just flat out think wtf? I guess I did my job lol 😏
SugarRush · 31-35, F
@Lolco-: I'm quite an inquisitive person so yes.. You definitely did that.
JarJarBoom · 41-45, F
I think this is the best way to approach things. When my now-husband was getting divorced from his first wife, i met her and she actually wasn't as bad as he painted her out to be. I have no ill-will towards her and actually feel happy that she has moved on and found herself. His baby mama is a different story, that woman had it out for me since day one!
SugarRush · 31-35, F
I knew her when we were teens and in honesty she was very quiet back then. She has two children, I have 3. My ex and I also know her ex (who's an idiot). I know she's worried what her ex will be like because she told my ex but I don't want her thinking that I will be the same. If there was cheating I could understand bad feelings but ex's are just that for a reason.. But why can't people Just be humble and polite.
Pherick · 41-45, M
Was this a public meeting? Like she just ignored you? Thats kinda rude.
SugarRush · 31-35, F
@Pherick:he's moving on. He's happy, kids will be happy when around him. He said he feels some guilt but i told him to proceed - she's been brought into his life for a reason, why give that chance up?
Pherick · 41-45, M
@Autumn-Rayne: Wow, you might be the best soon-to-be-ex-wife ever :) I don't think most woman would agree with you, but its awesome you feel that way.
SugarRush · 31-35, F
@Pherick: I won't lie, I am confused. I was kinda wondering where the "are you mad" replies were - is it normal to smile or even say hello to your exs new partner? I don't know why I have no bad feelings towards her, I think it's just because she seems a good person and in time if it got serious, she's a better role model / influence on our children than some other types of women.
sighmeupforthat · 46-50, M
she knew you were there.. she just doesn't want to make eye contact or any contact.


it happens.

god knows what's being said about you.... former situations are a pain in the butt.
SugarRush · 31-35, F
He wouldn't slate me because he knows I could tell her a lot of things which would cause her to run haha.
elVato · 46-50, M
k.
so what's wrong with her?

Let's pick her apart.
SugarRush · 31-35, F
@elVato: Nothing to do with class. Just something you brought to mind lol seems apt as it revolves breasts - which she has enough of *coughs* jealousy is an ugly trait lol
elVato · 46-50, M
boobs ain't everything.
maybe she's got inverted nipples.
SugarRush · 31-35, F
@elVato: I've only seen with a low cut top - it could be a case of silicon or chicken fillets (though I'm not asking to find out) haha
GeniUs · 56-60, M
My wife ran away with my best friend. I never met him but for what he did he's my best friend!
Sepia · 36-40, F
She has to deal..it may seem she is going to have a hard time on her new relationship..
SugarRush · 31-35, F
I know for a fact she will; from her ex and mine but that is for her to sort out.I just wanted to somehow show her that there is no hard feelings but hey.. Who knows, she could have been too interested in her phone to realise I was even there.
SW-User
My ex never introduced to me.. but they sure do try to take my place in my kids life...
SugarRush · 31-35, F
@Chantou: So sorry to hear this. Please give it time, the truth will out.
SW-User
@Autumn-Rayne: that's what everyone said.. I can assure you that my patience has been put to the test in the past yrs . hehe
SugarRush · 31-35, F
@Chantou:bless you! Things will turn out right - the wheel always turns a full circle.
Unlearn · 41-45, M
That's a very mature outlook...
SW-User
He's still your husband?
SugarRush · 31-35, F
We're currently going through a divorce.
SW-User
Well you seem like a good person 👍🏽
SugarRush · 31-35, F
@MissNotes: Thank you!
erik2000 · 22-25, M
Yes, maybe she will be the stepmother for your kids.
SugarRush · 31-35, F
She seems ideal in honesty. Well dressed, her children seem well looked after and she keeps herself to herself.

 
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