I Want to Be In a Healthy Loving Relationship

Does your child really need an abusive father figure? If your child doesn't know, he or she will eventually. And meanwhile you are lonely and unhappy in this relationship.

Take care of yourself and provide a good example for your kids.

The relationship you have is what your child will base it's relationships off of. If your unhappy good chance your kid will be unhappy in the future

@trackman11 thank u, my plan is to talk to someone and get some support and then go tru w ending the relationship. If ppl only knew how he treats me..but he lies so much and come off as a victim.

It is perfectly fine to stay in a relationship for the child! However if there is fighting or abuse separate unless he gets some counseling because that is bad for kids. But divorce can be very hard on kids too and expensive even if you are just living together and not married. Can you tell him what you need ? And Gather more support for yourself.
Also if you are going to leave have a safety plan and know where to go and plan it out so you have plenty of people around you and good resources. Talk to a counselor maybe to get some advice?

Whatever you decide, the fact that you care that much about your son having a father figure indicates to me that you will make sure his needs are met. I grew up without a father and I wish my dad had chosen to be there. Even so, my mom made sure I had what I needed and always put her children first. If there is abuse, your son isn’t growing up with a father figure. A father figure shows his child a healthy relationship with the child’s mother. I hope you find peace in making the right decision.