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I Am Sad and Lonely

This week has been a total nightmare. I've been having arguments with family and my fiancé has been drinking all week. It's sunday night and he's still drinking in the living room listening to loud music.
I cleaned two nights ago and it doesn't even seem like it. He smashed a beer bottle on the floor while arguing and blamed me for it. He still hasn't cleaned it up. The living room is a total disgust. I feel like I'm gonna lose my shit and just leave.
Serenitree · F
Yes. Leave. Leave behind the insanity. Try to believe this. They don't get better after marriage. If he's behaving this badly with his fiancée, he will be far worse with a wife. You think smashed beer bottle is bad, wait until it's furniture he starts smashing. Or the good China or you.
6XXX969 · 31-35, M
You're too lovely to be down don't let it get to you just take it slow and stay calm miss!
Serenitree · F
It's nice of you to be supportive,,but what does being lively have to do with being sad or upset? Are you saying if she was less attractive she could just stew?
6XXX969 · 31-35, M
Lovely doesn't have to mean appearance anyone could have a lovely sole lovely taste and other meanings to it, that's just the way you wanted to perceive it
Serenitree · F
@Hungbull23: no,,it's how I perceived it. Nothing to do with how I wanted to perceive it. It's simply semantics. I have always used lovely when talking about looks, never anything else. If I mistook your words, I apologize.
From personal experience 20 years later it does not get better. Leave before you get married and have children.
newstu · 61-69, M
as soon as you can!
newstu · 61-69, M
and move to another town
That's rough. If u want to her about 10 years of bad karma kicking me in the nuts in one month then message me and just ask (that goes for all who read this ) I can lend an ear and bring a make perspective. Good luck. I hope to hear from you soon. Hopes he's cleaned up his mess. Currently I'd say run. Doesn't seem worth the stress but again u know more than I do unless u share
annie616pop · 26-30, F
Please listen to your instincts about this situation. A depressed, angry, alcoholic boyfriend is a toxic world of trouble. Get away and set up another life for yourself and as soon as you possibly can join a group that provides support for co-dependent behaviors. To learn more about this browse Amazon.com for books under this theme as well as You Tube vids. Good luck to you.
Oster1 · M
Yes, his time is over..........it will never get better, imo:)
Sepia · 36-40, F
It's sad to be engage with a partner like that..I wonder why do you stay in a relationship with this man
LostSoul17 · 26-30, F
Yeah, I get what you mean. I have been thinking about it a lot. Some nights I can't even sleep just thinking of the situation. I am returning the ring, but I want find the right words to not hurt his feelings or make him think I'm braking up. Hopefully, he'll understand and we'll continue our relationship without the commitment of marriage.
Sepia · 36-40, F
@LostSoul17: if you do love him just tell that the change must be serious but if still he hasn't changed be brave and make your way..18-21 age bracket? Aww your very young :)
Serenitree · F
@LostSoul17: just because you've had worse, doesn't mean you don't deserve better. Breaking things and blaming you is building up to hitting you because of what he did. After all, if it's your fault, you deserve to be hit. Right? At least that's what they tell themselves. Everything is somebody else's fault.


[b]YOU DESERVE BETTER[/b]


Kind and sweet when he isn't being mean isn't good enough,,for you, or anyone.
uncalled4 · 56-60, M
You're seeing a snapshot of the best your life will be if you marry this person, sorry to say.

 
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