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I Want Someone Who'll Stay, No Matter How Complicated I Am


After reading that would you say his mind is made up forever? Or does he still love me since he's talking and explaining finally?
Paliglass · 41-45, F
It looks like two 14 year old arguing.

Why are you stopping a friendship for a guy? Why do you have to give up partying for a guy?

Lastly I really need to know the answer to this... What does his "fucking world" entail? I seriously have to know that lol
StonerGirl69 · 26-30, F
@Paliglass lolll well all that shit is childish so I'm willing to give it up, I don't care. & I was referencing what he said to me a few messages before to show I was listening, he said it so I don't really know.
Paliglass · 41-45, F
@StonerGirl69 you must ask him!!! I must know lol How can you decide if you even wanted his "fucking world" if you don't know what it was he had given you! 😂
djjohnson · 41-45, M
thats hard to say. at the least I'd say he feels guilty. But does he feel guilty for leaving or how he left is the question. Is he looking for you to understand him or just agree with him, or is he just venting? (rhetorical questions)
StonerGirl69 · 26-30, F
@djjohnson I'm not sure... he hasn't responded but I told him to take his space.. he wanted me to get these things from his house but I said if he wasn't ready to see me then just wait. & he hasn't said anything since so I take that as a good thing, maybe he's thinking it through one more time.. at least I get that.
djjohnson · 41-45, M
It's possible but please don't get your hopes up. I hate saying that but there is the old saying. "Expect the worst and then everything will be a pleasant surprise"
Unless you experience utter death-betrayal or something, like me (lol), well... then you *never* stop loving someone. I don't even see how it's possible. Of course it's still there in his heart somewhere. But he may suppress it.
StonerGirl69 · 26-30, F
@IndependentGuy I'm sorry you experienced that. & thank you for the reassurance.
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StonerGirl69 · 26-30, F
@BDAG18 uhmm my friend is a girl and I went out with her and she took me around guys... but I never did anything with those guys she kinda just got in my head and encouraged me to leave him so we had our breaks where I would do stupid things.. I never hooked up with anyone exactly though because it didn't physically work. I know I love him, I just fucked up because I thought the sexual complications were just him, but really it was because we were both virgins. Had I invested the time into him Instead of trying to hookup, but I was confused.. it was always while we were apart though.
Paliglass · 41-45, F
@StonerGirl69 ur no. I was virgin and so was my first. The whole fun was finding stuff out together so probably you weren't sexually compatible or emotionally compatible as you didn't have the connection to enjoy messing about with eachother. I have found you either click sexually with someone or you don't. I have only recently found a guy I click with how I clicked with my first real bf. Move on and find good sex, don't let a disappointing first experience put you off finding a guy who really does it for you. He needs to find a woman who really does it for him too of course, it's no more his fault than yours.
SW-User
I think he has moved on but wants you to know that you were his first choice and you blew it sorry :(
StonerGirl69 · 26-30, F
@SW-User damn.. lol. Thank you though.
SW-User
@StonerGirl69 your young and will get past this. obviously you had reservations about the relationship anyway
dale74 · M
No he is pissed because you won't go along and let him cheat and be the faithful gf who ignores it when he is unfaithful and goes partying with his friends he wants you to be the girlfriend that he shows to his family that's prim-and-proper
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he's hurt...give him some time he might come back

 
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