For 20 years my best friend from high school and I had a secret affair. I kept it from my husband and he still is in the dark. It ended when she succumbed to cancer 20 years ago today. RIP my friend.
Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.
@Matt85 That's the amazing thing about Christianity. You can do whatever shitty, immoral or hateful thing you want and all you have to do is say, "Hey god. I'm a sinner. Sorry." And you're good to go. You can do more shitty stuff and just repeat the process. There's always an out. That's why overall the religious are the most immoral and hateful out there. So twisted.
Everyone's situation is different. It is easy to judge others, especially anonymously. i recall a long-time affair which ended when she moved far across country. Still vivid in my mind. Your recalling the anniversary shows how meaningful it is to You.
A bitter sweet memory? Your husband should know though, he must have some importance in your life, or are you with another! A secret is one thing, and can be forgiven, a lie stays a lie and continues to bad.
So sorry for your loss. Just left a wedding of my niece and her wife. It was a grand affair. Chic does not begin to cover it. I’m sorry- that seems callous considering your loss....