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I Had An Affair

For 20 years my best friend from high school and I had a secret affair. I kept it from my husband and he still is in the dark. It ended when she succumbed to cancer 20 years ago today. RIP my friend.
maturemuff61 · 61-69, F
Sorry hear this I had the same happen to me with my life partner about 10 years ago I think
Matt85 · 36-40, M
James 5:16

Therefore confess your sins to each other and pray for each other so that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person is powerful and effective.
Ynotisay · M
@Matt85 That's the amazing thing about Christianity. You can do whatever shitty, immoral or hateful thing you want and all you have to do is say, "Hey god. I'm a sinner. Sorry." And you're good to go. You can do more shitty stuff and just repeat the process. There's always an out. That's why overall the religious are the most immoral and hateful out there. So twisted.
Nudistsue26 · 31-35, F
I know it's been a few years but I'm sorry to here of the loss of your friend.
Sueisright · 31-35, F
Must have been very beautiful with such a good friend for so many years
Montanaman · M
25 years ago now. I can imagine that your memories together feel like only yesterday. 😒💔😥🤗🤗😇😇
jennyCook · 22-25, F
So very sorry to hear that I am sure she was a special lady in your life... god rest her soul
retiredbum · 51-55, M
Sorry for your loss. My wife had an affair. I was hurt. She said it was only sex so I took her back. We are still together
TheScubaDiver · 36-40, M
I like this story
It shows how most love affairs are kept a secret due to society
SW-User
Sorry for your loss but not sorry you’re a cheater. Your poor husband
SliderJim · 70-79, M
So sorry to hear of your loss.
Jordan420 · 56-60, F
@SliderJim you're very kind y
SliderJim · 70-79, M
@Jordan420 you must have had a very fulfilling relationship with her.
Chelsiegirl · 46-50, T
Im sorry for ur loss.
TheScubaDiver · 36-40, M
Was this your only affair with a woman? Or did you have more encounters after
likesnatural · 70-79, M
What did you get from your friend that you didn't get from your husband?
daddybloke · 41-45, M
you naughty girl , sorry for your loss
Jordan420 · 56-60, F
@daddybloke thank you and thank you
Myself11 · 61-69, M
So sorry for your loss my dear 🤗
Jordan420 · 56-60, F
@Myself11 you are so kind . thanks
Myself11 · 61-69, M
@Jordan420 thank you for the kind words
JimboSaturn · 51-55, M
Sounds like it was a good part of your life. I'm glad you did it.
SW-User
Sorry for your loss. Keep the secret though.
oldercanuck1 · 70-79, M
Sorry for your loss ....
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SliderJim · 70-79, M
😞 a sad date
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
How far do you take 'flirting'
Jordan420 · 56-60, F
all the way@BigGuy2
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
@Jordan420 ...good, let's start chatting in PM's then, you've some unanswered ones
BigGuy2 · 26-30, M
@Jordan420 i can't leave a message for you until you respond to my PM's
eatpraylove · 56-60, F
you are just another cheater.
don't use cancer for sympathy.
its insulting and shameful
Ynotisay · M
@eatpraylove Kiss my ass. Block.
bobrido · 56-60, M
@Ynotisay "Easy does it throwin' those stones, huh? They have a way of coming back and hitting you."

I want to thank you for that reply. I agree with every word you said. I also plan on using your quote someplace else.
Motosh72 · 51-55, M
@eatpraylove Seriously? Look in the mirror, and tell us you can cast the first stone.....
CountScrofula · 41-45, M
:( I'm so sorry for your loss. The emotional complexity of all of this must be so much for you right now.
Orangehotrod · 61-69, M
Sorry about your friend! Life is too short not to love and explore I’m happy you had that experience!
Uncfred · 61-69, M
Some may be heartless, but 20 years is not a fling, so I feel for you.
Tiusflow · 61-69, M
That is sad and sweet at thecsame time.
Sadwithasmile · 22-25, M
So you’ve have the affair since you were 15?
SarahMom · 41-45, F
That’s so sad. So sorry she passed.
sorry for you loss
laotzu92 · 70-79, M
Everyone's situation is different. It is easy to judge others, especially anonymously. i recall a long-time affair which ended when she moved far across country. Still vivid in my mind.
Your recalling the anniversary shows how meaningful it is to You.
Uncfred · 61-69, M
A bitter sweet memory? Your husband should know though, he must have some importance in your life, or are you with another!
A secret is one thing, and can be forgiven, a lie stays a lie and continues to bad.
Motosh72 · 51-55, M
So sorry for your loss. Just left a wedding of my niece and her wife. It was a grand affair. Chic does not begin to cover it. I’m sorry- that seems callous considering your loss....
LookingIn · M
Well if no one got hurt by the affair I guess no harm, no foul.

How do you think that your husband would have reacted if you’d let him know?
lubovont · 70-79, M
I'm really sorry for your loss. I know what it means to lose someone that close. And I know what it is to have to keep love a secret
bhatjc · 46-50, M
Sorry for you great loss. She was a good friend. Sounds like you have some sweet memories of each other
Bluesky52 · 61-69, M
she as in same sex affair?,,,,spare your husband and not say anything,
melbeacher · 56-60, M
Congratulations on keeping something like that secret for so long
passion · 56-60, M
Would love to chat with you!
Arnoldrj1 · 70-79, M
Sorry to hear about your friend!!
Dadbod52 · 56-60, M
oh dear. that is heart breaking
Thereyouare · 56-60, M
Truly sorry for your loss
SW-User
Congratulations?
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Sterler45 · 36-40, M
I am sorry to hear this
mountainman1234 · 70-79, M
Sorry for you loss ,,,,
Sorry for your loss.
curiousashley · 26-30, F

 
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