I Hate Conflict

So I used to be much worse. When I was in middle school if someone so much as showed the slightest irritation in me I would hold back tears. Then it got to the point where if I argued with someone I wouls be shaking and afraid. Nowadays I still hate it and try to avoid it but I’m better now and I stand up for myself when I need to. Only thing I hate now is that it stays on my mind weeks sometimes months after🙄

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I have similar reactions to stress and confrontation. Yesterday at work i had my boss get really abusive and bully us and there's nothing we can do. I just shut down as i was having flash backs to when i was in school. I was awake all night as it's all i could think of. I am struggling to even eat today.

Miracle23 · 26-30, F

☹️ I’m sorry you’re going through that. If it’s that bad that it’s messing with you mentally and physically you should look for another job so you can get away from him or her. 🤗@SW-User

SW-User

@Miracle23 Thank you!! Actually the group i work with are all now looking for another job because of this. Thanks for your understanding, i sure hope i find something 🤗

Miracle23 · 26-30, F

You’re very welcome and I’m so glad none of you won’t be staying.@SW-User

Lilred2289 · 31-35, F

Omg I’m the same way

Chickie · F

I was on incognito when I saw this post I reactivated my account just so I can comment!

I am the same way and I can't stop thinking about it I replay over in my head and I wonder at the people who I made mad still think of me badly. I think this is aniexty? I was diagnosed with general aniexty.

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