I Am Comfortable With My Sexuality

Someone told me that they think eveyone is at least a little bisexual and they were serious! If that were true, there'd be no such thing as heterosexuality or homosexuality. We'd just all be bi. 😂😂😂

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kayoshin · 36-40, M

I disagree. I've heard that before and I can't agree. I believe "everyone" includes myself and I can say for myself that I am not in the least Bi. I feel repulsed by the male body even in It's best examples. I can tell a good looking man from a.n ugly or out of shape or unhealty one but I don't feel attracted in any sexual way to them on the contrary i see them instantly as competition.
Something else to consider is the existence of asexual persons. That again breaks the "everyone is somewhat bi" supposition.

goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F

@kayoshin Oh yes, definitely with asexual people! And I feel no attraction whatsoever to women. There's no doubt in my mind that I'm not bi! XD

kayoshin · 36-40, M

I think the people trying to sell the "everyone is bi" idea are either trying to ease someone into the idea of experimenting or trying to justify to themselves that their bi thoughts are the most common thing in the world "im not bi the world is bi!" Lol

LillyOLilly · F

good point.

SW-User

I think to some degree everyone is Bi.

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SW-User

@goagainsttheflow No I was joking, but I suppose we have all experimented, I think that's why people get it in their heads.

goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F

@SW-User I feel kinda silly for letting that joke go over my head! 😁

SW-User

@goagainsttheflow Im sure you will be fine 💙

Bluesky53 · 61-69, M

hetero till I die,

goagainsttheflow · 26-30, F

@Bluesky53 Same here :)

TammieBear · 22-25, F

There is only sexuality in my opinion. It is "natural" to love the person you are attracted to, whatever sex they are. That I love a girl makes me no different to if she were a boy. Some of us just don't define ourselves by the sex of our loved one 😔

suburbs · 22-25, F

Guys all the way.

MartinTheFirst · 22-25, M

I think that it's a choice.
If you believe that it's not a choice, of course you will be either one or the other.
There is nothing that indicates that it's something you're born to be.
It comes from your surroundings and beliefs.
I also think that once you've opened your sexuality up to a gender, it's hard to close it again.

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