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I Need Advice From Any Openly LGBT Person

So I'm beginning to realize that I like girls, or at least I think so. I've never actually had a crush before? I've always been really closed off about relationships. I've always just thought there's no point in having a crush because I can't act on it, I'm too young to date. Now I'm starting to reconsider. I know looking back that I've never had feelings for guys but girls are actually really cute and I think I like them but also I've never had one particular girl where I was just like yes that girl, that girl right there, I really like her! Maybe that's just because I never really let myself though? Also I really like the idea of having a girlfriend but I still don't really have any particular girl I'd like to date. Even if I did how would I know if she likes girls or not? I'm definitely too young to use a dating app but it seems like that's the only way to find sapphic girls. What do I do? I'm so confused by my feelings.
ok so as a superfgt, I'm going to tell you what I told my now 16 year old sis a while ago.

Ha Gaaaaaaaaaaaay

Now that I got that outta my system. It sounds to me like you're probably gay asf. I would suggest that you watch how you feel and explore these feelings as you get older. I also told her to not give af about dating until college, cuz being a fgt in hs is wayyyyy different than being a fgt in college. But of course follow your heart if you really like some betch and you think it could be something go for it. 馃檭

As far as telling whether or not she's a fgt well.... you've gotta develop gaydar, trail and error, but follow your gut. People will tell you tons of shit about what to ask and it's still not 100%, unless it's the Kristen Stewart Question 馃槀馃槀馃槀馃槀馃槀馃槀馃槀馃槀 jk.

You could also be stereotypical and make a tumblr, I still can't get into it #lazyho
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NinaSilver26-30, F
Hey! So, your listed age range is very young, which I mention not to discredit or invalidate you, but to remind you that the age you're at right now, and will be for a few years yet, is one which involves a lot of growth and self-discovery. This is a great time to explore your feelings.
I didn't have a 'real' crush on a girl until I was 13. (That was actually what clued me in that I like girls.) It's been almost 6 years since then and truthfully, I'm still figuring out and settling into my identity. Something to remember is that you are who you are and you love who you love- or you don't. And that's okay too. If you're not experiencing strong feelings of attraction, you may be on the asexual and/or aromantic spectrum. It's possible too that your feelings of attraction will develop more as you get older. Identity is often fluid, and it's okay if you are unsure or if your identifiers change.
For now, my advice would be to think about your attractions sometimes, as in be open and introspective, but to try not to stress about it or overthink it (although I know that can be difficult.) You'll settle into yourself naturally with time, and that's time that can absolutely be appreciated and enjoyed.
How old are you?.... There's no rush so don't put to much pressure on yourself to figure that stuff out now. Just keep an open mind and concentrate on school
AlmightyLoad26-30
Dont rush into it and prepare for some trouble people are cruel but go on your own pace

 
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