I Think a Lot

I think the reason why I have not been here for such a long time because I hate looking back. I still write but not here anymore. I am not sure what got me here again. Maybe I am reaching out anonymously again. EP helped me through the dark times in my marriage. It also brought out more demons. SW helped me through my divorce. I am doubtful being here helps. But it helps to dump my thoughts and emotions.

A little gist of my journey; I left my marital home early 2016 and finalised my divorce mid 2017. I have also finally sold my marital home two weeks ago in May 2019. It is finally over. No traces left. Not really. I still hold a lot of baggage inside me.

Currently, I am working part-time as a legal assistant in a law firm, taking my part-time degree in social work and also, a solo parent of my 6 year old kid. I am also close to reaching 30 in June.

While I was away, I had many many ups and occasional downs. I actively seek to heal myself through friendships, being honest with myself, helping women through their problems and I went for counselling and therapy as well.

I think about the online friends here from time to time. So hello. I am back.