I Think a Lot

it should be "I love you NOW" instead of just plain, misleading, lie-like "i love you"

it is so much accurate and it is the application of what humanity has learned about romance over time- that "love" or romantic attraction is nothing but just an emotion that one feels at the moment much like craving or hunger or thirst. regardless of whether or not it gets satisfied, it'll just eventually go away like it's always been meant to.

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Danez · M

Yes it's true that the feelings of love can be fleeting, but there is a choice that is made to either work at the relationship to develop a deeper caring love OR to just let it slip away. It's easy to feel an attraction or lust at the thought of someone and fall in love with them. But it takes work for two to choose to care about each other to give up or sacrifice your life for the other, caring more and more about them for the love to be more than just than love you NOW.

AnneHoney · 36-40, F

Love is just an temporary attraction. After that it's about getting along together.

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Northwest · M

@bijouxbroussard and some believe love is a complex thing, consisting of emotions, common purpose/interests, lust and intellectual intercourse. None of these things have to drop off over time.

bijouxbroussard · F

@Northwest I agree with you. That's how I see it---I have loved like that. The feelings are nothing like what I had for my grandparents. I get that not everyone can relate though @AnneHoney

AnneHoney · 36-40, F

It's more caring

Calmsoul · 31-35, M

True .. the intensity of the emotion is like a pendulum

bijouxbroussard · F

No one can predict the future.

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