I Have Lost Control Of My Bladder

It started around year 2000 with bedwetting. I had surgery in 2004 I have a shunt. It had to be revised. What should have been a simple surgery turned into six surgeries. A side affect from the surgery I now have a neurogenic bladder. Since 2004 I have been totally incontinent and in diapers 24/7. Oh well considering all I have been through things could be worse.