I Have Random Thoughts

I wonder if true love even exists . I feel like I'll be hated by any man I have a relationship with . I guess it's my personality they don't like . I'm not confident enough or they think I'm not good enough . That's why I don't dare get involved with another man .

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DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F

Its hard to find committed men these days, in my experience. And it seems they will use any excuse to leave after theyre bored of the relationship or want to test the waters some more. Ive had my ex bfs say i was such a terrible person but then later on down the line say i was a great girl, they werent ready to settle down.

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SW-User

@DarkSideoftheMoon They want an excuse to cheat so they put the blame on the lady and not themselves. They are lost in confusion and are selfish backstabbers . If you're not ready to commit to a lady don't get involved with her in the first place . They can get one night stands until they are sure they want to settle down with a person

DarkSideoftheMoon · 31-35, F

@SW-User manipulative basterds

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

@SW-User I ain't going anywhere... That's just my point. Nobodies going to make me forget how much I love her.

TeresaRudolph71 · 51-55, F

I believe that it does, but sadly it can take a long, long time to find it. And even then it's probably going to be far from perfect. Self-confidence helps, but you can't beat yourself up for not having it. It's not your fault.

SW-User

I know it's not my fault I think luck helps too and I don't have that @TeresaRudolph71

BetweenKittensandRiots · 36-40, MVIP

I have learned from experience confidence is important because without it if you actually have feelings for the girl she'll think somethings wrong with you and pathologize you for it.

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