I Have Random Thoughts

Negative and belittling things said to me and about me today. I just cannot handle any more. I'm crying because my heart hurts and I feel like I just cannot measure up.

I know I need to shake off the yucky words and not let them take root... but they still hurt.

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Awww, hugs. Definitely don't let what others think influence what you know your worth is! If someone is unable to see your value, they are the ones with the problem. You are so strong, beautiful, your smile is contagious, and you work hard to please and care for your hubby. You have enough on your plate already, don't let insults be a part of what you allow your thoughts to feed on.

SoFine · 46-50, F

The Gold in life, is never to take personal offense. Your mind, is your mind, if you let the words of others take hold, then you perpetuate their words. You are the commander of you, why then allow others to command your mind.

You are in command not others, if you allow this....then cut out this practice. You will suffer .......

To be you, is your gift to you.

Sorrowfulgaze · 46-50, M

The only words that matter are the ones that come from within. Don't let anyone else tell you different.

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Sorrowfulgaze · 46-50, M

@realrare That is hard to accept especially when it seems to come out of the blue. But like you said they do not know you or your situation. They merely think they do. You make your life and define your situation. But Yes it hurts when someone seems to turn on you like that. I hope that you can feel better about yourself soon. 😇