I Have Random Thoughts

Literally doing that.But I am getting very nervous too.I hope he doesnt take any drastic step..@SW-User

I havent thought of asking them but I think I have to now.I am getting nervous whether he will turn up in my house or office and do something drastic,he once told he would commit suicide ,so its creeping me out... @Montivagant

Oh dear, doesn't sound fun. I hope he gets the help he needs and leaves you alone. Good luck! @Soulspace

@SW-User I met him in a shop ,we exchanged numbers after a brief talk.He wanted to meet me again,go out on a date ,but I have denied since.He harassed me online after that and I ended up blocking him.But before that he kept on saying he will prove ..What does he want to prove ?

@Soulspace i have no idea, that's weird. he wants a chance to prove himself maybe because he only got one date, but the behavior since is all red flags to say "nope, not interested you're coming on way too strong and creeping me out"

Yes,but thats dangerous..he is weird.Who does that even ?When the lady clearly is not interested in him?@SW-User

Yes,Its creeping me out.He tried with different phone numbers after being blocked in one. @SW-User

He cant now.This was before I blocked him@Paliglass

@Soulspace people do use the police and civil court orders if he's using different numbers and follows you.

I've had alot of guys who contact me when I don't want them to. I shout "fuck off" or "don't make me tell you to fuck off" or "what the fuck is wrong with you, stop calling me" Which has worked on every occasion lol Except a long term ex who followed me, spied on me, turned up at places I go, text me 200 times in a few hours without me responding once, pushed his way into my house (I had him arrested), dumped his rubbish on my path, broke in and stole my hair straighteners from my bed room and cum on my bedroom floor - he admitted all of it except the cum. Anyway I got a civil court order which has arrest powers eventually.

If he gets worse get official help. But don't get paranoid because in these situations the imagination can run away with you. Work out what is real and what isn't. It's easy to get paranoid and imagine you're followed but with my ex he always made himself known to be following me. I still carried on my life as normal and I'd say "hi, you alright" to him when he creepily turned up places. Getting upset, changing your life or living in fear is probably what they want when they're crazy like that - I don't know and that's a guess but the way I saw it someone else's creepy behaviour is their problem rather than mine.

Thanks for your support. I gained strength reading that alone. Men can get extremely creepy I admit and you are right.. They want us to live in fear. This logic sits.