I Believe Family Is Very Important

@fungirll I do care but he seems to feed his pride bigger. The more I reach for him the more big head he is now. I just want to free myself for being too much for him to ask. I did my part so I think leaving him alone is much better. He is included in my prayers but I don't want to be upset and get stressful because he thinks he's all :D God will take care if him. I am happy :)

Missing notes- I got a sister I didn't get in with. I do now. She is older. Growing up I didn't like parts of her personality an she used to really annoy me. We argued a lot an I said horrible things which I really regret. Buuuuuut, as I got older an I'm saying in my 20s I realised she can be an idiot, I gott accept that about her. We don't argue any more. She still annoys me, I give her space or myself space as she means well an is good. It took me to get to my twenties to stop being so sure of myself an accepting her faults. My eldest sister (a different sister) , we don't get along. She is pretty selfish an thinks of herself. My family I know agree with me. Buuuut for family ' s sake so we get along I make an effort. I don't deal with her to often so I'm nice but give a lot of space between us as I know we will clash. My other sister won't have oldest sister stay in her house which is a shame but I understand why. Hope u an ya bro sort it out. One thing to remember is men mature an handle emotions I think more slowly than women so I look at myself an I deal with stuff better as I age where as before I'd explode an rant an rave like an idiot. Hope u both sort it out :)

Jaden, I've been there and i know you think you don't care and you are committed to that hatred through the pain, but if he passes away with this unresolved it is going to hit you full force. I've been in both scenarios and reconciled too late for one of the persons to know. You don't excuse the actions but you simply let them know you do care about them.

The worst that can happen is he will reject you. Put the past behind you and try to let go of the hurt. Speaking as someone that missed out On a decade with my family, don't wait... Don't think about it. .. Just get off here and call him. If he hangs up don't give up. Send him a letter and explain that you miss him and need him. Come back and let us know how it goes.

I can understand this situation..he is your younger brother..I had a big fight with an older bro & I just don't care he is so hateful

I'm glad you are able to reconcile that and I will pray for him to be humbled and wish to reconcile with you in the future.

@Widower1- It's a bit complicated. All I can say is....he disrespects me, puts me down, and hurts me a lot.

call him today..... tomorrow may be to late

@fungirlmm & @missingnotes peace of mind rocks ♡♡♡

get what ya saying about toxic words. Im guilty of throwing those toxic words about. And having listened to ya story although i know my sister was wrong my verbal garbage didn't make matters better and i rally regret it. Thankfully we are past that noe but I'm truly grateful that we are.

MissingNotes - my brother died a few years ago. A man should not die in his mid-forties. I know that at your age, you think you have all the time in the world. But you never know what can happen. Be the bigger person and make the first move. You'll both be grateful.

Why did you guys disagree? Is it something you can compromise on or not really?

Thanks MissingNotes. I understand. I just wanted to lend my perspective.

I dunno. He seems mature enough to me. He is very intelligent and well-spoken.

@MissingNotes how young is he?

@Horace - I'm sick of [i]always[/i] being the "bigger person"... and what do I get in return? More pain. I miss him, but am hurt. He can't keep throwing his toxic words in my face like that with no apology or willingness to change. PS: I'm sorry for you loss. x

It's been two months

give him some time.... :)

Well said fun

He's 21.

my sister and I have bad blood between us,i've chosen to end her mood swings,by not talking to her any more than I need to,