I Believe Family Is Very Important

Ok. i dont think i could ever be like my dad. He was born in the 50s and with no choice had to start working on construction. I feel if i dont do what he does ill never be a man. my brother did it too...but he stopped at 23. hes now 43. My brother left over trouble makers and big mouths. I felt even more strongly about avoiding that line of work..specially since 40 years of that work my dad did exhausted him too much..made him more angry and resentful. I mean am i a wimp for wanting to work on retail...or a coffee shop...or a bookshop?